Short and Sweet

It was intense the first couple of hours he was home. I didn't know how respond to him, he didn't know how to respond to me. But after a late lunch, we had a chat, clarified the issues and things are normal once again.

We spent all afternoon in bed. We laughed, ate, drank, did some X-rated adult stuff, twice and are now watching TV. I'm happy, he's happy what more do I need?

Windy's thought of the day? How much time should two people spend together before they REALLY know each other?

There is always something

Its seems sometimes my life is never calm. There always seems to be a storm brewing. Last night Okey and I had a rather unpleasant conversation. Apparently, I am an unhappy person especially when things don't go my way, I'm not fun and too grown-up. Needless to say I am in shock about the whole thing and in the 8 years we have know each other I don't think I have misrepresented myself on such a level that my character is surprising.

News flash, in case you didn't know I'm mostly serious, mostly grown-up, organized, planning, controlling and always moving.

Does he really not know this in 8 years? I hope this information will be addressed tomorrow when he gets home. It's sad to me that I am not the person he thought I was/am. All this information is very unclear to me and I hope it can be better understood tomorrow. A lot of my thought has gone to this issue and I hope it is not detrimental to our relationship.

On the brighter side my sisters, mom and I went to the Fiesta Bowl Parade it was a lot of fun and gave me an opportunity to take my mind of that conversation. It was nice but only temporary.

Here are some pics world.

Windy's Thought of the Day: When does being married stop being so complicated?

Friday the 2nd

Laura, Cyrah and I had our first outing. We went to Savers and bought some newborn outfits. Now we are at Granny's having some lunch and Granny was visiting withe the baby. It was so neat to watch Granny hold her great-grand child. I hope soon she can do that with my baby. Speaking of my baby..... Okey and I decided last night that we are for sure going to start trying to have a baby after September!!!!! I know I'm so excited.

Tomorrow is the Fiesta Bowl Parade that's always fun. Okey has the good camera so I will do my best to take pics with the not so good camera.

Another night at home (alone) but only 2 days to go yuppie!!!!!

I took a 2 hour nap it was so awesome!!!!! Napping truly is one of my favorite hobbies.

Windy's Private Thought of the Day: How do I get my puppy to stop jumping and to lie down?

Sorry world no pics today I'm sleepy.

Day 2 of First Day

Happy New Year world!!!!!!

I brought in the new year at home with good friends, good food, good drinks, and the wii (ouch! arm is hurting from wii tennis). Only thing that could have made it better was a real kiss from my husband (he is out of town until the 4 th) but oh well, life goes on.

Wanna hear my resolution? It's not big or fancy. I told Okey (my husband) for new years I would commit to playing 2 hours of video games a week with him (I am no gamer so this is a true indication of my love for him) (he is so lucky)!!!!!

Today I went to my sisters house, I will be off work until the 9 th to help her with the new baby. I cleaned her house, walked and fed the dog, make some food and watch the baby so she could shower and rest. It feels really good to do something nice and meaningful for someone other than myself. I can not begin to explain how human you feel in such a non-human world.

Oh BTW world to entice blog subscriptions, Every time I write a blog I will be adding a section called Windy's Private Thought of the Day Here it is.....

With my sisters being so fertile (both of them are younger, both of them have children, both of them had unplanned pregnancies, and both of them were not it lost standing relationships) I worry that I will not have a baby; not that I am trying at the moment but it is a thought that enters my mind every now and then) it would be terribly tragic to not have children. Okey and will be such a GREAT parenting team. I pray that we have a baby one day . A health and happy baby, when the time is right.

He's so great I love him!